mitmaks wrote:ya i understand how hard it is to let someone go when you been in long term relationship(( was 4+ years) then I was about to move there to be with her and seemed like life was too perfect you know. Well its not then she tells me shes been with other guy and supposedly we weren't "together" (she says she wasnt my gf at the time) and she's been with this other guy, then doesnt tell me anything but tells me that she has had emotional problems and not sure if she wants to be with me, Im like ok...but doesnt mean I dont love her, so Im back with her then she admits it. I was shocked for weeks, still am, wasnt too long ago...how someone could do that to me, someone I trusted more than my mother. And to think I was moving there to be with her. And then she tells me its my fault too. Well I guess my mom was right, she's not for me. You know guys, when you get gf take her to family dinner and see how your mom likes her and how she likes your mom. Usually moms sense if shes good for you (as in being good wife, etc) That's just my advice though, but its proven many times.Originally posted by Andrew_Pakula:
Here is another thing to consider, if you were to take her back, deep down inside don't you already feel and know that it would only be a short term kind of thing if you took her back?
Ask yourself:
Can you honestly see yourself with this girl still 5 years from now?
This is a question you should answer with your gut and not ponder about it for a long time. If you are kind of iffy about it then the truth is the relationship will likely never work properly even if you get back together with her.
just an update...
Well we're through and then she calls me up (my ex) last night and left voicemail "how im doing etc" How would someone think Im doing after she's done something like that to me. I was starting for get over it just little by little but she had to call and make me hurt again. The thing is I really loved that girl and she cheated on me. And after work I get on AIM and talk to her about how am I supposed to feel about it after shes done so many bad things to me and she decides to leave then cause i "b---- at her"
Cant believe I spend 5 years with someone that would crash my dreams in just moments. I dont feel same about any other girl yet, doesnt seem theres right one out there. Ill just go work on my cars, theyre been faithful to me.