My girlfriends parents are terrible, her mom and dad are divorced, and have been for many years now.. They are both remarried and still fight, basically it's all about money.. They put my girl in the middle, her mother sends e-mails claiming that my girlfriend requested money from her father, which she didn't. My girl doesn't care about it, she just wants them to respect her. On my girls birthday this Saturday, we were supposed to go to dinner with them. She opened a letter from her father, and found out that her mom had put words in her mouth again (she's in college, and she gets her mail only when she visits her parents place). She was super pissed..
They got into a big argument, cursing ensued, and she said "we're leaving!" and I followed.. She's angry because her mother cares about money and not her feelings. Her whole family is terrible.
Now... Her parents pay for her school (her college is super expensive) but she doesn't exactly want to speak to her mother again, she wants nothing to do with the family anymore.. Which is understandable, but she wont give up on her dream of being a dentist...
So today, I went over to hang with her, and she said she thought of a way to pay for school, but that I wouldn't like it. I guessed a few times, and finally she hinted toward stripping... I absolutely cannot stand it. She is NOT the kind of person to ever do it, she hates it, and so do I... We hate porn, we hate strippers, we hate whores... She doesn't want to, but she says "well, I can make good money, and they don't touch me" I am so sad, I don't want her to have to, I look at it as cheating.
We talked about it all day, and she seems like she really doesn't want to, and that she wants a different way to get money, or perhaps even give up on school for now. But I think she should just keep dealing with her family for a free ride.. I would personally keep dealing with them, until school is over, and I am a doctor... I don't understand how terrible her family is completely, I didn't go through it as a kid like she did.... My family is loving and respectful. I wish I could trade, I want her to have the best..
If she strips, she will be dead to me, I don't respect those people at all..
I want to keep loving her. I want her to have a free ride from her parents.
She's my love, the love of my life, but if she goes and does something like that to make money, she wont be the girl I fell in-love with anymore....
WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!??!
I'd do anything for her, I'd rob banks or be a jewel thief for her... I'd even strip so she doesn't have to..
This is a terrible situation, I hope you guys and girls don't have to go through it.... If anyone has ANY advice, I would love you forever.
...Damnit...
Seeing her in pain, hurts me so much...
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