I gotta try to give as much info as I can. Figured as much, and I'm leaving in the middle of the night Tuesday for a month-long exercise, so in case I can't do much/am limited to my phone, I'll pass on as much info as I can now, even in case should give you hopefully just enough into to be able to figure it out yourselves if need be.
In case you can find a "dual 87" relay (automotive relay specifically for wiring lights), than you can clean up the wiring a bit:
See the picture on the relay how 87 and 87a are connected together with the same line, that's the one you would use for the "dual 87" setup above. Mine listed both pins 87 since they're both connected, but that's basically it.
Than this one is just an ordinary automotive relay, see how 87 and 87a are seperate. That would be for a regular setup in my previous replay/diagrams with both fog lights tied together to the same pin on the relay.
Also, the "from 12v live power source", don't tap into the parking lights line, it shouldn't be enough to drive all of the lights. If you want a clean install, AND your Mx-3 doesn't have ABS or A/C, rather than add s--- to the positive battery terminal or an aftermarket block, use those unused spots in the fuse box that's in the engine bay. They're live, they just need a standard fuse (40amp max for the fog lights because the relay will only be good to 40amps). That little fuse box is easy to take off, and you just need a female spade connectors. One is a standard size spade connector, the other is slightly larger (think it was the A/C) which I found the large size spade connector at a local automotive store.
Can't find a picture online of that little fuse box in the engine bay, but you know which one I mean...it sits right beside the other one. If you want to take out that fuse box to bring it unto the store you can to find the right spade connector you can, I believe that line is bolted in, just be careful since it's easy to forget that that line is live, so keep it away from metal

If you gotta drive your Mx-3 to the store, just seal it up good because that line is direct and unfused if I remember right.