Grants wrote: Man I hope its a boy!
If you have a girl the world will know you didn't want her and are disappointed. You wanna live with that? I got girls! They're great!
wtf is wrong with you????????????????
If its a boy he's gotta live with the threat that he was lucky or else dad wouldn't have liked it.... bad bad bad. Obviously a girl you'll love less.
maybe you're the issue?
First off Barry, as I've already told you, Congratulation's from both Lindsay and I, to yourself and Deitra, You'll both be great parents, and we wish you all the best!
Secondly, Grants, you are WAY out of line on this one. We've put up with your crap for quite some time now, and I am debating putting a serious end to this. You may have been a member for a long time, and respected on some topics, but as of lately you have turned out to be quite an A-hole to a number of people.
Yes you have donated to this help support this site numberous times with fairly generous amounts, but I nor this site can be bought. You still are required to follow the rules.
Barry was simply stating his excitement about being a soon to be new father. Just over 2 1/2 years ago, I was in the exact same position as Barry, finding out I was a going to be a new father for the first time. All along my wife kept saying it would be a girl, and that she wanted a girl. Personally, I was hoping for a boy, for our first child, it was ust somethign I felt more comfortable with at the time. Same thing as Barry.
This must make both of us terrible parents not deserving of having children? At least thi is what it sounds like from your unwarranted posts directed to Barry.
In the end, my wife was right, and we had a beautiful baby girl, who is now 22 months old. I wouldn't trade her for the world. She is now my purpose for living, and the fact that she is a girl as opposed to the boy I originally hoped for. I was just as excited to h old a newborn baby girl in my arms as I would have been to have a newborn baby boy.
As was previously mentioned, everyone has hopes and dreams. If they get something else in life, it doesn't mean that they are unhappy, or not worthy of having it.
Grants, if you have a problem with myself or any of the moderators of this forum, you should speak to me directly as all of the moderators on this site are in that position for a reason. They follow the rules as have been laid out by me. Anything Barry or the other moderators do or say, is in effect coming from me. I fully support the actions that they take to make this Forum a better place for all MX-3 members.
If you don;t like someone's opinions, speak to them directly via e-mail and keep it off of the public domain.
Grants, you are sitting on the fence right now with regards to your status on this forum. I am debating putting a ban in place against your membership. If I cannot come to a decision with the other moderators of this site, I may open up the decision to the members of this site. We'll see where you stand....
Jeff Aycan - Site & Forum Owner/Administrator
I too hope for boys. Put what he said out of your mind and enjoy your celebration. 
(and she really was) I don't feel upset by it and neither do my brothers. My Mom and Dad loved us all the same.
. Thats more than you can say about cars