what would you do

tw1st3d_cl0wn · Post by **tw1st3d_cl0wn** » May 3rd, 2005, 2:09 pm

I think it's very cool you're as close as you are to your parents. I wish more people like you lived near me, I can't seem to find sane people to hang out with. Haha.

jschrauwen · Post by **jschrauwen** » May 4th, 2005, 5:26 pm

mymx.3 wrote:As a Mom of a 25 and a 21 yr old boys and having the oldest breaking the law constantly from age of 14 till 20 ... he had to hit bottom before he smarten up .. we would not pay for the lawyer, he couldn't come home and we wouldn't bail him out .. he had to learn the hard way .. of course being a parent he wasn't going to listen at all to anything we had to say .. for 5 yrs now he has completely changed around and knows now what he has done and regrets it alot. He was lucky ... as to your friend I know you are concern but it isn't your responsibility .. have to realize he may never change

Deb, you hit the nail right on the head. They don't call it tough love for nothing.