sidenote: i had dated a girl for a while and she met up w/her ex-boyfriend at a CHURCH RETREAT! well the 2 of them decided that they needed another chance and subsiquently i was dumped. i found out about a week later she had cheated on me during the retreat, so she dumped me thinking i wouldnt find out, either way, i did and ended up getting some pretty sweet revenge....but not as good as custommx....DAAAAAYYUM!!!
just some advise, dont run off and jump into another relationship right away, just hang out and be a dude for a while. it's really hard to adjust to the situation and you'll want time to really procces it and get over it. but when you do start dating again, you just have to stress honesty as a core value in your relationship. not saying that you didnt before but you can just tell that some girls will lie and others (like my g/f thank God) absolutely dispise lying and dishonesty. be friends w/a girls and find out about them first and how they act, who they hang w/blah blah blah, so that the 2 of you really know each other before you make it more serious.
revenge tips: get back any/EVERYthing that you guys 'shared', like me and my old g/f for example, we had pictures, videos, just little things that were reminders of each other...and then sell what you can *sell some of HER stuff that you might have too*, and light the rest up w/some good ol gas-o-line! and make sure it gets back to her friends to really nag at her. if it doesnt bug her, at least you'll feel better.
just ask yourself some questions and find out if you did get back with her, would it ever work...
1. do i really want to be w/someone that could do such a vile thing to me?
2. could i look this girl in the face and not think about what she did?
3. could i ever trust this girl 100% EVER again?
number 3 is key! trust is earned, she blew it...
... now go sell some stuff and buy some new rims!
